Unless of course you are in the. It's also assumed that locker rooms are prime hunting grounds for gay men to poach heterosexual men. They look at women and think nothing of it. Absolutely not! When straight men finally realize they are no more a sexual catch for gay guys than they believe they are for women they might get a clue. ALL guys check each other out, period. Sometimes a particularly good-natured patron will remark on how it always seems that you return to your locker at the same time that a person using an adjacent locker to yours does, no matter how empty or crowded the locker room is.
I don't want that.
All the crap you listed here is not only insulting and demeaning but pure garbage. In our current wave of man-on-man sexual liberation thanks to geolocation apps and a proliferation of orgies, steam-room sex is yet another choice in an option-saturated culture. Of course it took me years of blossoming into a mature man to see things that way.
As I recall, if the straight jocks in the locker room had an inclination that I was gay, they were more interested in my satisfying their willies than they were being paranoid.